Bullying is on the national radar these days. Personally, I think it is long overdue. My caution is, take care to understand the difference between bullying and kid play.
Bullying is an act of intended intimidation. Girls, boys, young adults all need to 'tool' their way through the development of friendships and self-awareness. Awkward responses and behaviors are often part of this growth period. Bullying however, is a malicious act geared at minimizing others in order to elevate one's self worth.
I see an increasing number of children and young people who are working hard to find their place. We can be a part of making the journey smoother with understanding hearts and encouraging words.
However, if you see a form of intimidation designed to hurt and conquer, take a stand on behalf of the victim. Watch for signs of distress, tell the key people in their lives, and find ways to give value.
One of the most dangerous forms of bullying takes place in cyberspace. Words have become lethal weapons. Please look over your child's shoulder. Protect them from others as well as themselves.
I hope you will link arms with me on this very important issue. The culprit isn't found in developmental growth, it is found in the heart. Lets be heart smart and help our students value themselves as Kingdom people not worldly warriors.
Preparing Kids for L.I.F.E. ... Influence with purpose
Deb Blanker
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